Whoever said marriage was easy must have only been married for two minutes. Believe me there is nothing easy about marriage it is hard work. If you want to make a marriage last you have to work at it, there is a lot of give and take in marriage. everybody has heard of the book "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" John gray couldn't have put it better, we are so different in everything. If men think they can ever understand a woman, there wrong, we'll will never truly understand each other. God created us to live together, and if we were to much alike we'd never be able to survive, there needs to be that opposition in the thought process to keep us both working together. If young couples today want to make their lives together, they have to remember to give and take, and yes there will be arguments and disagreements, but you have to understand that these things will happen and we have to keep trying. Women need nurturing, loving touches, hugs, caring for, security, stability, and the occasional new pair of shoes, and well men need food, sex, the remote, and... that's all I can think of right now.
Just know, don't give in to defeat make that marriage work and as long as you keep God in your marriage you can MAKE IT WORK.
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